although only a myth for some females...there are those lucky few who know what im talking about...but back to todays semi related topic..."relationships"...im talking about the most basic form of relationships...the boy - girl dillema...and although the Dude upstairs likes to throw some curve balls our way (homosexuals) to confuse us little ants a little bit...it remains that the most underlying connection is that of a boy and girl...with that said why is this still something worth talking about? well becasue not many boys nor girls know how to deal with it...relationships like everything in life takes work and effort...and like everything else in life...it ends...but that does not mean we shouldnt try and continue to put forth that effort...
problem#1...when you are in a relationship...when should you end it? well this has to do with personal preference...there are somethings that i wouldnt take but you might take...but it all comes down to being happy as a person...if you are in a relationship that takes that away...then you must get out...there are many people who enter and still remain in abusive relationships (wink wink Arodue)...but if you are honest with yourself and the happy times still outweigh the ER times...then stay...but love shouldnt hurt
problem#2...when is it too late? well the simple answer is that it is NEVER too late...life is a finite commodity that should be lived to its full potential...meaning you should grab life by the nuts and feel that shit!...in other less expicit words...you should just go out there and grab who you want...but there will always be the fear of rejection...but with every good thing in this world...there will always be the potential of the bad to balance it out...dont wait till tomorrow...dont lie to yourself and say you have better things to do...dont expect the other person to make the move (they might not read this) dont waste time...dont let your head play tricks on you...dont let the lack of courage get the best of you...and finally dont ever think its too late
problem#3...lets say i go forth and grab those nuts but get rejected...what then? well here you have 2 options...one is to contiue on grabbing those nuts and hope that persistance will change the situation...this rarely ever works...and even when it does...it doesnt last very long...option two is to drop it and move on...the ability to let go is one not many people possess...but an ability everyone should learn...if one cannot step back and let go...they will be living with mucho mucho unhappiness...there are always fish in the water...you might let one go...but there will be another one on your worm in no time...trust...so just let it go
problem#4...the person i like is attracted to someone else...what should i do?...well this is very similar to the rejection problem...you have the same 2 options...but here is where it gets tricky...it depends on how much you like the person and in what way...if you are those stubborn people who get pissed just because you cant get what you want...then not only will you be unhappy in life you will die misserable...but if you truly care for the other person...you will want the best for them...so just let them do what makes them happy...but if you think you will be the best for them...then gentle persuasion is needed...because anything more will make them think you are a jealous freak and be detered from you even more...dont lie to yourself and dont be stubborn
well that concludes my little blant...but then again there are those of you who will ask the most obvious question...who am i to say these things...and why should they listen to me? well to those people i say im RICK JAMES BIATCH...nah...im not rick james...im just mucho mucho more intellegent than yous...*most of my poems are no longer visible...
problem#1...when you are in a relationship...when should you end it? well this has to do with personal preference...there are somethings that i wouldnt take but you might take...but it all comes down to being happy as a person...if you are in a relationship that takes that away...then you must get out...there are many people who enter and still remain in abusive relationships (wink wink Arodue)...but if you are honest with yourself and the happy times still outweigh the ER times...then stay...but love shouldnt hurt
problem#2...when is it too late? well the simple answer is that it is NEVER too late...life is a finite commodity that should be lived to its full potential...meaning you should grab life by the nuts and feel that shit!...in other less expicit words...you should just go out there and grab who you want...but there will always be the fear of rejection...but with every good thing in this world...there will always be the potential of the bad to balance it out...dont wait till tomorrow...dont lie to yourself and say you have better things to do...dont expect the other person to make the move (they might not read this) dont waste time...dont let your head play tricks on you...dont let the lack of courage get the best of you...and finally dont ever think its too late
problem#3...lets say i go forth and grab those nuts but get rejected...what then? well here you have 2 options...one is to contiue on grabbing those nuts and hope that persistance will change the situation...this rarely ever works...and even when it does...it doesnt last very long...option two is to drop it and move on...the ability to let go is one not many people possess...but an ability everyone should learn...if one cannot step back and let go...they will be living with mucho mucho unhappiness...there are always fish in the water...you might let one go...but there will be another one on your worm in no time...trust...so just let it go
problem#4...the person i like is attracted to someone else...what should i do?...well this is very similar to the rejection problem...you have the same 2 options...but here is where it gets tricky...it depends on how much you like the person and in what way...if you are those stubborn people who get pissed just because you cant get what you want...then not only will you be unhappy in life you will die misserable...but if you truly care for the other person...you will want the best for them...so just let them do what makes them happy...but if you think you will be the best for them...then gentle persuasion is needed...because anything more will make them think you are a jealous freak and be detered from you even more...dont lie to yourself and dont be stubborn
well that concludes my little blant...but then again there are those of you who will ask the most obvious question...who am i to say these things...and why should they listen to me? well to those people i say im RICK JAMES BIATCH...nah...im not rick james...im just mucho mucho more intellegent than yous...*most of my poems are no longer visible...
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