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anyway...to answer some of my fans...the most recent one asked me if the reason of life is important and whether when we figure it out is important or not...i simply say, when its our time its our time...and during our time on earth, there are just too many things too big for our minds to handle, thus during our time on earth, we should create a meaning for ourselves...anything that gets you out of bed in the morning and to bed at night waiting for the next day...and if there is a bigger reason, im sure we can figure it out at the end...
second...no one needs to apologize for anything that has happened...life is a continuous string of events, one thing ultimately leads to another and an unique story is told, i dont look back and think "damn...if only" its more like...ok next time i know what to do...live for the present, learn form past and hope for the future...
next...we all have symptoms of regret, its what we do with that feeling that ultimately defines our character...you can choose to sit and sulk where others may choose to correct their wrongs, either way, its better to move on then to dwell...and i know that...and you should too...
thats about it........dont forget to be honest after clicking the link above...
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seems like you've got it all figured out....
yet your other posts suggests that you are quite dissatisfied with your life....i guess you would reply by saying that by finding meaning for yourself, it does not defnitely equate to overall satisfication....does this mean that happiness and reason are two separate entities? with respect to your comment about correcting your wrongs....it is not so simple and requires more than the initial pursuit of correcting it.....correcting your wrongs means you need the co-operation and authorization of the other parties as well taking their agendas into considerations. simply putting your mind to resolving an issue does not mean that you have corrected it. and if this correction is a mere selfish act of mitigating the feelings of guilt brought on by the initial regrettable action....then it just escalates one's selfish character....lastly, you speak of dwelling as if it is a weakness or that it contradicts the whole notion of defining one's character....considerable dwelling is never a good thing....but a certain amount of dwelling is a demonstration that one is remaining true to one's own character....if we are so easily able to just simply move on and escape regret....or realize regret but simply do nothing about it.....or try to correct our wrongs without enduring its demands....then we are not building anything at all.
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